Overcoming Sex Addiction & Rebuilding Trust: Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith (S12E46)

Overcoming Sexual Addiction & Rebuilding Trust: A Journey with Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith

In this episode of the Self-Brain Surgery podcast, Dr. Lee Warren delves into a sensitive yet critical topic—sexual addiction, infidelity, and pornography.

Featuring Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, professional therapists specializing in sexual addiction and betrayal trauma from Memphis, TN, the conversation explores their personal story of brokenness and redemption.

The Raabsmiths share insights into how neuroplasticity and God's grace helped them rebuild their marriage and family, offering hope and actionable advice for listeners dealing with similar issues.

The episode includes a discussion on the neuroscience of addiction, the impact on relationships, and pastoral encouragement for those seeking recovery. The Raabsmiths also provide resources and practical steps for couples to reignite trust and intimacy.

Click here for the transcript!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Content Warning

00:39 Meet the Guests: Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith

02:17 The Raabsmiths' Journey: From Brokenness to Healing

06:16 Understanding Sexual Addiction and Betrayal Trauma

13:19 The Role of Faith in Recovery

16:46 Challenges of Pornography Addiction

21:40 Advice for Parents: Preventing and Addressing Addiction

24:25 Creating a Safe Space for Kids

25:27 Navigating Relationship Challenges

26:31 The Journey of Healing and Honesty

29:40 Building Trust and Vulnerability

31:11 Finding Purpose in Recovery

35:05 Helping Others Through Your Story

41:35 Encouragement for Those Struggling

45:39 Resources and Final Thoughts

Resources and Links:

• The Raabsmith's Website
• Free HONEST check in guide/challenge: raabsmithteam.com/free
• The Raabsmith's book, Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection That Stands the Test of Time
• Subscribe to Self-Brain Surgery, my free weekly prescription for human flourishing, in the top 35 science publications on Substack!