10. Husbands: What to Say After Sex That Makes Her Want You More

What age-old scenario plays out again and again in marriages everywhere? It’s where wives seek emotional connection before engaging in sex, while husbands often feel connected through sex. Mary and Katieann aim this discussion at helping husbands improve their  intimacy by becoming more emotionally engaged with their wives.

Three key topics are explored: why husbands might be unaware of the need for emotional intimacy, simple steps to enhance their sex life, and the positive impact of making wives feel loved. Personal anecdotes, practical advice, and scriptural support are provided to encourage better emotional and physical bonding in marriages.

Two keys revealed: 1. Exactly what to do (easily) after sex to maximize your connection and win her heart. 2. Specifically how you can help her get to the place of NO withholding physically and emotionally in sex.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

01:30 Understanding Emotional Intimacy

02:09 A Story About Learning and Growth

11:40 Simple Steps to Improve Your Marriage

16:26 The Power of Unconditional Love

22:36 Biblical Insights and Final Thoughts

TAKEAWAYS:

• Recognize that emotional and sexual connection are two sides of the same design and not in competition.
• Understand why your wife often needs emotional connection before sex, while you experience it through sex.
• Learn simple, daily ways to show interest that build connection without pressure.
• Practice saying loving, affirming words after sex to deepen emotional safety and desire.
• Experience intimacy as bonding and God-designed, when love leads both before and after sex.

FREE RESOURCE:

Is it difficult to talk about sex? Check out my books on Amazon. They guide you through understanding your own hesitations and give you templates on how to share your thoughts.

For wives: Why Can’t I Talk to Him about Sex? 
For husbands: Why Can’t I Talk to Her about Sex? 

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This podcast is designed for informational purposes only. Any and all actions or consequences from the podcast are the sole responsibility of the podcast audience participant. Information should not be seen as medical or mental health advice, and is not meant to take the place of seeing licensed health professionals.

 

Special thanks to Suzanna Storey of Saphron Music for “Shape Shifter”, on her Identity Crisis album.