11. Why More Sex Won’t Heal Broken Trust

What role does trust play in your sex life? If you don’t feel emotionally safe, it’s impossible to have true intimacy. Mary and Katieann address the issue of trust in marriage, particularly focusing on its impact on sexual intimacy. Triggered by a listener's question, they dive into practical tips to identify and build trust within a Christian marriage framework. Key topics include the harmful effects of betrayal and addiction, how to evaluate trust on a 'number line,' and positive steps for creating an emotionally safe environment. They emphasize the importance of emotional safety before engaging in sexual intimacy and discuss the signs of both negative and positive trust. Listeners are encouraged to evaluate their own trust levels and seek healing and support if necessary.

TAKEAWAYS:

• Assess the trust level in your marriage before applying the intimacy advice we share.
• Recognize that broken trust changes what intimacy requires.
• Understand that trust grows through consistent responsibility, not intentions (I’m sorry. I’ll change.).
• Honor the pain of betrayal you feel and don’t rush into intimacy.
• Guard your heart as an act of wisdom, not rejection.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction and Audience Engagement

00:42 Addressing Intimacy Advice and Trust in Marriage

02:49 Understanding Trust in Marriage

05:06 Personal Story and Trust Analogy

07:30 Negative Trust in Marriage

16:50 Positive Trust and Accountability

21:14 Repentance and Responsibility

25:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

 

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DISCLAIMER:

This podcast is designed for informational purposes only. Any and all actions or consequences from the podcast are the sole responsibility of the podcast audience participant. Information should not be seen as medical or mental health advice, and is not meant to take the place of seeing licensed health professionals.

 

Special thanks to Suzanna Storey of Saphron Music for “Shape Shifter”, on her Identity Crisis album.