How to Talk About Sexual Preferences Without Killing the Mood
Om avsnittet
How can you tell if a new partner shares your turn-ons — without making it awkward?
In this episode, I answer a listener question about casual sex, power dynamics, and the kind of miscommunication that can happen when you don’t talk about your turn-ons out loud. We unpack a qualitative study on how people in BDSM communities use tech (like texting) to express desires, set boundaries, and build trust — especially when things are new or casual.
You’ll learn:
- Why even light power play requires clear communication
- How texting about sex can build connection, not kill it
- How to talk about your turn-ons — including different submission styles — without overexplaining
The study covered in this episode is: Sometimes It’s Easier to Type Things Than to Say Them: Technology in BDSM Sexual Partner Communication by Hamm et al., published in Sexuality & Culture.
Interested in my services? Check them out here
Join my 1:1 online program Re:Desire here.
Do you want to submit a listener question for the podcast? Here's the link
In Bed with Science: a Sex Podcast med Leigh Norén | Sex Therapist and Relationship Expert finns tillgänglig på flera plattformar. Informationen på denna sida kommer från offentliga podd-flöden.