What Is Actually Happening Inside Them

This episode asks something difficult: set aside what the behavior looks like from where you are standing and look at what it feels like from the inside. Not to excuse it. Not to accept it. But to make the withdrawal make sense. We go inside the avoidant experience, the shame beneath the self-sufficiency, and the thing most avoidant partners want but have no idea how to ask for.

The complete book is available on Amazon. Search: "Loving Someone with Avoidant Attachment by Kent Feng Blackwood"