Why the Work Starts With You

You did not create this dynamic. So why does every path forward seem to run through you? This episode makes the honest case that the only lever you actually control is yourself. We cover where anxious attachment comes from, how it feeds the cycle even when it comes from love, and what regulation and self-work look like in a relationship that still has not found solid ground.

The complete book is available on Amazon. Search: "Loving Someone with Avoidant Attachment by Kent Feng Blackwood"